Horizontal drop down menu with static menu on click

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I know I'm missing something here -- so close! I'm trying to get the horizontal drop down menu to stay there upon clicking a link within it so when you go to the page you click, the rest still show up.

http://www.aweddingbreeze.com/servic...ding-packages/

This is the CSS (not my original code, just tweaked by me but still can't get it to work).

navbar {
	width: 900px;
	margin: 0px;
	padding: 0px;
	list-style-type: none;
	}
	
#navbar ul {
	margin: 0px;
	padding: 0px;
        float: left;
	}

#navbar ul.children {
        width: 100%;
        border-left: 1px solid #ffffff;
}

#nav li {
	list-style: none;
	float: left;
	background: url(images/nav.gif) top center repeat-x;
	margin: 0px 1px 0px 1px;
        padding: 15px 15px 13px 15px;
	}

#nav li a, #nav li a:hover {
	text-decoration: none;
	border: none;
	}

#nav li a, #nav li a:visited {
	display: block;
	font-weight: normal;
	color: #5e5e5e;
	margin: 0px;
        padding: 0px;
	}

#nav li a:hover, #nav li a:active {
	text-decoration: none;
    color: #eb008a;
	}	
	
	
/* Dropdown Menu */		

#nav li ul {
	display: none; 
}

#nav li:hover ul, #nav li.hover ul {
	position: absolute;
        display: inline;
        left: 0;
        height: auto;
        width: 100%;
        margin: 9px 0 0 -15px;
        padding: 0px;
	}

#nav li:hover li, #nav li.hover li {
	float: left; 
}

#nav li li {
	border-right: 1px solid #ffffff;
	background: #eb008a;
	padding: 0px;
	margin: 0px;
	}

#nav li li a, #nav li li a:visited {
	font-weight: normal;
	font-size: 12px;
	color: #FFF;
	text-align: left;
	padding: 4px 8px 4px 8px;
        margin: 0px;
        float: left;
	}

#nav li li a:hover, #nav li li a:active, .current_page_item a {
	background:#bd0471;
    color: #fff;
	}	
		
#nav li:hover ul, #nav li li:hover ul, #nav li li li:hover ul, #nav li.sfhover ul, #nav li li.sfhover ul, #nav li li li.sfhover ul {
	left: auto;
	}