Complicated Question About Combining Middle Section

[rishel]

First of all, the image concept is here: http://www.pixelmatters.biz/main/temp/sitelayout.png

First of all, I am wanting to combine the first and second column (which used to be there columns) into one. The picture shows this concept, which has the title "Welcome To Crosswalk Community Church".

The second part of the concept, is to add a video location, where the third location used to be.

Yes, complicated I know, but it would really set this layout off in my opinion. What video plugin do you recommend first of all to play FLV videos (If I have to), or other videos. And, can anyone tell me how to combine those first two sections into one.

Thank you VERY much to anyone that can assist.